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Divorce, Custody Books

admin — Tue, 16 Nov 2010 01:02:22 +0000

Learn from the many people that have gone through high conflict divorce and custody situations with these recommended books:

Mr. Custody Coach and Our Family Wizard

admin — Tue, 28 Sep 2010 15:19:28 +0000

Our research into ways to assist in improving your divorce and custody circumstances has led us to Our Family Wizard.

Improvements can always be made, even long after the filing of the divorce decree, parenting agreement, or child custody order. A myriad of ways, both known and as yet undiscovered, exist to improve your family life whether your divorce acrimony has settled into a working co-parenting arrangement with your ex-husband/ex-wife - or remains high-conflict despite the passage of time.

With the Our Family Wizard program, you have a wealth of life management tools available at your fingertips. It keeps contact at appropriate levels, creates objective evidence that may be used in future court actions, and helps to minimize conflict.

Coordinate parenting time agreements, child custody orders, and associated schedules.
Document agreed-upon changes to the custodial arrangements, providing objective evidence and an audit trail in the event of future disputes.
Update the other parent regarding children’s extracurricular activities, holidays, school projects, etc. as appropriate.
No-spam secure message-sending interface.
Private or shared journal options.
Document shared expenses (required by court order or otherwise) with objective evidence and an audit trail.
Share and update family health history, including records, immunizations, school updates, virtual file cabinet, and more as appropriate for your specific situation.

This Our Family Wizard program has so gained in popularity that family court systems all over the United States are mandating its use in order to help minimize conflict, eliminate he-said/she-said situations during litigation, and help to keep parents out of the courtroom whenever possible.

Our Family Wizard program goes well beyond the basic divorce software and calendar offers from other organizations. It is a comprehensive a life and family management tools system that comes with our recommendation.

So, if you’re ready to make some improvements in your post-divorce and child custody communications, please click here to give it a look and a try: Our Family Wizard

Mr. Custody Coach Radio Program: Guest, Bill Eddy

admin — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 15:09:47 +0000

October 21, 2009 2PM ESP - Choosing A Custody/Divorce Lawyer With Expert Bill Eddy

Bill Eddy, author of Splitting, High Conflict People In Legal Disputes, among several other titles dealing with high conflict personalities - is our guest. Bill joins us to discuss what you need to look for when choosing an attorney, with specific emphasis on the high-conflict divorce & custody dispute. Mr. Eddy will also be discussing the recent launch of New Ways For Families and his upcoming book.

You can listen to our past shows and see our forthcoming schedule by clicking here: MrCustodyCoach Blogtalk Radio Program

Child Support

admin — Wed, 20 May 2009 23:08:40 +0000

Child support is a much heated area in child custody, but it’s important for fair child support orders to be placed for both the children and the parents after divorce. Child support, just like child custody, can change repeatedly throughout your children’s lives, so being prepared for modification requests is imperative. Sourcing hidden income, and strategy with a custody coach can also save on attorneys fees.

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Child Support Articles

Parental Alienation

admin — Wed, 20 May 2009 22:32:15 +0000

While experts still disagree if parental alienation syndrome is a true medical or mental issue, most understand that parental alienation happens in a lot of custody cases. Learn how to recognize and stop parental alienation with our articles, conference calls and personal custody coaching.

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Parental Alienation Articles

False Allegations

admin — Wed, 20 May 2009 22:19:23 +0000

We all wish false allegations would never happen, but unfortunately, it’s often the easiest way for a parent to throw suspicion onto the other, with very little or no proof, and have the kids taken away almost immediately. While an attorney can help you once false allegations have been made, Mr Custody Coach believes in creating boundaries in advance if you believe your ex is likely to file false allegations with either the police or CPS, in order to lower your risk.

False Allegation Products

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False Allegation Articles

Custody Agreements

admin — Wed, 20 May 2009 17:53:09 +0000

Custody agreements are the heart of a custody case, and the hardest thing to get right. A custody agreement is supposed to outline how the children will be shared between each parents home, but when you are in a high conflict relationship, if your agreement doesn’t have details, all hell can break loose.

Custody Agreement Products

Custody Agreement Articles

Custody Evaluations

admin — Tue, 19 May 2009 23:27:59 +0000

Custody evaluations are often ordered by the courts when custody cases are presented and an agreement cannot be reached by the parents. The custody evaluator will make a recommendation to the court on what the custody arrangement should look like after meeting with the parties, and you are then able to argue for or against the recommendation at a hearing.

Custody Evaluation Products

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Custody Evaluation Articles

Maximize Custody Time

admin — Tue, 19 May 2009 21:51:27 +0000

The main goal of any parent in a custody case is to get the most time with their children as possible, whether that means full custody, 50 percent of the year, or the full summer for parents that live far away from their children’s home. Parents that end up in court fighting over custody still see custody being awarded to the mother in 85% of court cases. While shared custody is beginning to make it into the mainstream with laws mandating 50/50 custody unless there are outstanding circumstances preventing one parent from caring for the children, for most fathers it is a battle to overcome the stereotypes that Dad’s are nothing more than a wallet. Mr Custody Coach helps Mother’s or Father’s get the most custody they feel they are prepared to handle.

Mr Custody Coach provides information and coaching on how to create solid custody agreements that not only put the children first, but minimize contact between the parents in order to stop harassment. Mr Custody Coach deals with issues like one parent withholding the children during the agreed upon exchange time, how to overcome restraining orders that were created under false allegations, making sure the children receive the appropriate education and more.

Religion
Holidays
School Breaks
Vacation
Exchanges
Extra Curricular Activities
Moving
Child Care
Health Care
Education
Relationships
Contact, ie phone calls, etc
Discipline
Contempt of Court

Custody doesn’t end with an agreement, each parent must follow the agreement to make it work, and unfortunately, this is where most people really need a custody coach, as problems that were never thought of crop up.

Imagine a simple thing like the custody agreement stating that custody is from Sunday to Sunday, but doesn’t say what time, where, or who is to do the driving. While parents who get along can usually agree on these things and make changes when needed, parents that are in a high conflict custody situation can rarely speak on good terms. Mom has plans on Sunday until 6pm so she wants Dad to pick them up at her house at 6:30, but Dad has plans that start at 5pm, so that’s not possible, he would like a 4:30 drop off by Mom since he drove last time. Mom doesn’t agree, so she says, sorry, too bad, you can’t have the kids. What should be a simple exchange turns into one parent dictating how things will happen to the other parent, regardless of how this impacts their life or plans. And of course, the children are stuck in the middle.

Custody coaching can anticipate these problems in advance and recommend a custody agreement that leaves little room for conflict. After an agreement is reached and problems appear, a custody coach can help determine what is most important, offer solutions, and most importantly, create a buffer so your tension levels don’t skyrocket everytime there is an issue.

Reduce Attorney Fees

admin — Tue, 19 May 2009 21:41:10 +0000

Having an excellent attorney is almost mandatory in high conflict custody cases, but paying your attorney for every problem you need to deal with can add up fast. Having a custody coach and tools at your disposal to study the custody and support statues can significantly lower the time your attorney needs to spend on your case.

Mr Custody Coach helps clients research and prepare common letters and responses in order to save time having your attorney simply review the materials rather than having them create them from scratch.

Custody agreements in high conflict cases are almost always useless when prepared from standard agreements that are not written for parents that literally can’t talk to each other. Attorneys and the court systems believe the parents will do what is in the best interest of the children, but this is rarely the case. That’s why we see clients that continually have to go back to court to get their custody agreement changed in order to stop the conflict, stop the alienation, and stop the harassment.

When you create a custody agreement that solves these issues the first time, you don’t have to pay your attorney to continually be changing the agreement and going to court to fight for your rights. Honestly, most attorneys don’t have a lot of experience with truly high conflict cases, or with clients that may be up against someone with a mental illness that encourages more conflict like a personality disorder. Mr Custody Coach is specifically geared towards helping clients in extremely negative custody cases.