Comments for Mr Custody Coach http://www.mrcustodycoach.com/blog Better Prepared. Better Outcome. Fri, 12 Mar 2010 07:08:36 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7.1 hourly 1 Comment on FL: Paul Martikainen Arrested After Abducting Son by justice http://www.mrcustodycoach.com/blog/fl-paul-martikainen-arrested-after-abducting-luke-finch/comment-page-1#comment-151 justice Fri, 05 Feb 2010 01:44:51 +0000 http://www.mrcustodycoach.com/blog/?p=705#comment-151 He is a desperate father. Florida is renowned for not protecting fathers' rights..You know, I'd best guess that everyone out there has done more than a few things that they are not proud of and that could easily be blown out of proportion if handed over to the public and media. Really, I know there are a large number of father's who don't care for their children. This man fought for his child to no avail. He jumped through every hoop and has always been open and honest with his past(which by the way is really overdramatically represented). He loves his son a lot and honestly couldn't bear to have him ripped out of his life through the court system because the mother wants to cry wolf. How about looking into the child abuse charges??? they have pictures....of a mosquito bite from where they roasted marshmellows in the back yard. (Seriously, what is up with FL mosquitos?? They are huge! When i visit I'm nearly eaten alive). I recommend that this "evidence" is publicly shared so we can all observe just how "abusive" this father is. I know it is wrong to kidnap-I just realize why some people are driven to desperate acts when they love someone. I thank God they were both found safe. But I'm so sad for the father who misses his child and the child who doesn't understand where daddy is. and why he hasn't come to see him. :( He is a desperate father. Florida is renowned for not protecting fathers’ rights..You know, I’d best guess that everyone out there has done more than a few things that they are not proud of and that could easily be blown out of proportion if handed over to the public and media. Really, I know there are a large number of father’s who don’t care for their children. This man fought for his child to no avail. He jumped through every hoop and has always been open and honest with his past(which by the way is really overdramatically represented). He loves his son a lot and honestly couldn’t bear to have him ripped out of his life through the court system because the mother wants to cry wolf. How about looking into the child abuse charges??? they have pictures….of a mosquito bite from where they roasted marshmellows in the back yard. (Seriously, what is up with FL mosquitos?? They are huge! When i visit I’m nearly eaten alive). I recommend that this “evidence” is publicly shared so we can all observe just how “abusive” this father is. I know it is wrong to kidnap-I just realize why some people are driven to desperate acts when they love someone. I thank God they were both found safe. But I’m so sad for the father who misses his child and the child who doesn’t understand where daddy is. and why he hasn’t come to see him. :(

]]> Comment on NY: Support New York State’s Shared Parenting Bill A3181 by eric nagy http://www.mrcustodycoach.com/blog/support-new-york-states-shared-parenting-bill-a3181/comment-page-1#comment-150 eric nagy Tue, 05 Jan 2010 22:57:49 +0000 http://www.mrcustodycoach.com/blog/?p=218#comment-150 i would like to add something here im a single father from manhattan ,my son case of abuse was dissmissed 3 times yes 3 times by nyc suprerem court ,acs and law guardain the mother had doemstic violence charges on her with all the evidence from the police ,the school etc,, they found nonthing wrong when he sustained a black eye,a cramped necl ,marks on his body and also his entire left face even as the child said his mother and boyfreind hit him the judge a married mother with children let the case go ,they tryed to violate my freedom of speech ,expression in court which they failed as i fough for my constituional rights,i been to every potilitican in nyc on my case she has even violated the court agreement which is a breach on the contract ,again ill be in court as the mother refused to let me see my son on xmas and spent my time at the precient talking wit ha detective .throughout the case not only has racisim,and discrimination has occured but corruption throught these agenices were notified by mail ,phone etc and they continue t olet my son be in that house they said quote these are accidents really when my son is dead or hurt would you think that was an accident to things are going to change nyc and people are tired of seeing the system fail our children i can bet in time woman ,men all races and cultures will fight on this and one day we will have the same rights the courts are in a bussiness of money ,serperating children from fathers ,and putting children in foster homes and gets money by the state its a bussiness with big profitts that soon will end justice will come i would like to add something here im a single father from manhattan ,my son case of abuse was dissmissed 3 times yes 3 times by nyc suprerem court ,acs and law guardain the mother had doemstic violence charges on her with all the evidence from the police ,the school etc,, they found nonthing wrong when he sustained a black eye,a cramped necl ,marks on his body and also his entire left face even as the child said his mother and boyfreind hit him
the judge a married mother with children let the case go ,they tryed to violate my freedom of speech ,expression in court which they failed as i fough for my constituional rights,i been to every potilitican in nyc on my case she has even violated the court agreement which is a breach on the contract ,again ill be in court as the mother refused to let me see my son on xmas and spent my time at the precient talking wit ha detective .throughout the case not only has racisim,and discrimination has occured but corruption throught these agenices were notified by mail ,phone etc and they continue t olet my son be in that house they said quote these are accidents really when my son is dead or hurt would you think that was an accident to things are going to change nyc and people are tired of seeing the system fail our children i can bet in time woman ,men all races and cultures will fight on this and one day we will have the same rights the courts are in a bussiness of money ,serperating children from fathers ,and putting children in foster homes and gets money by the state its a bussiness with big profitts that soon will end justice will come

]]> Comment on 10 Top Ways to Fight Parental Alienation by Dave Reese http://www.mrcustodycoach.com/blog/10-top-ways-fight-parental-alienation/comment-page-1#comment-149 Dave Reese Thu, 24 Dec 2009 16:09:38 +0000 http://www.mrcustodycoach.com/blog/?p=227#comment-149 My ex has my boys (20 and 14 yrs old) that I left all of them. I suffered through 2 years of horrible visitations 5 years ago right after the divorce. It was forced by the court but they did not want to go. Eventually they started refusing to go again and flipping me off through the window. I call, text and send cards at least once per month and stay positive in my contacts but they cuss me out and tell me they hate me. I send them money for birthdays and Christmas but this year I bought them gifts and asked to meet with them to give them their gifts. I have not seen either in 3 years. They are refusing to meet. Do I keep sending money and gifts to children who have eliminated me? My 20 year old wants me to pay for college but refuses to have anything to do with me. He just wants me to fund him. I desperately want a relationship with my boys...what do I do? Signed, Down and out. My ex has my boys (20 and 14 yrs old) that I left all of them. I suffered through 2 years of horrible visitations 5 years ago right after the divorce. It was forced by the court but they did not want to go. Eventually they started refusing to go again and flipping me off through the window. I call, text and send cards at least once per month and stay positive in my contacts but they cuss me out and tell me they hate me. I send them money for birthdays and Christmas but this year I bought them gifts and asked to meet with them to give them their gifts. I have not seen either in 3 years. They are refusing to meet. Do I keep sending money and gifts to children who have eliminated me? My 20 year old wants me to pay for college but refuses to have anything to do with me. He just wants me to fund him. I desperately want a relationship with my boys…what do I do? Signed, Down and out.

]]> Comment on CA: Elizabeth Fontaine Loses Custody of Children - Murders Them by admin http://www.mrcustodycoach.com/blog/elizabeth-fontaine-loses-custody-murders-children/comment-page-1#comment-148 admin Wed, 23 Dec 2009 05:05:55 +0000 http://www.mrcustodycoach.com/blog/?p=751#comment-148 Karol, with all due respect to the work you perform, this is a similar accusation we hear far too often in custody cases and very often, the allegations are completely unsupported and, in fact - false. She committed a heinous crime and tossing accusations against the father in the aftermath of such a tragedy is very poor form, but at least you got a plug in, right? "You" at New Life Advocacy have no problem going out and posting allegations of child molestation, incestuous child molestation at that, against a man solely on an email from a clearly deranged woman, and trot that out here as some sort of defense? Shameful for you and your organization. Karol, with all due respect to the work you perform, this is a similar accusation we hear far too often in custody cases and very often, the allegations are completely unsupported and, in fact - false. She committed a heinous crime and tossing accusations against the father in the aftermath of such a tragedy is very poor form, but at least you got a plug in, right?

“You” at New Life Advocacy have no problem going out and posting allegations of child molestation, incestuous child molestation at that, against a man solely on an email from a clearly deranged woman, and trot that out here as some sort of defense? Shameful for you and your organization.

]]> Comment on WV: Paranoia About Christmas Photos Leads to False Accusations? by admin http://www.mrcustodycoach.com/blog/paranoia-about-christmas-photos-false-accusations/comment-page-1#comment-147 admin Wed, 23 Dec 2009 05:02:51 +0000 http://www.mrcustodycoach.com/blog/?p=739#comment-147 Seth - to your first comment, it's absurd. The officer overstepped and the parent overreacted, particularly in light of his complying with the parent's initial request. Stop making excuses for the officer's alleged actions, he had no business approaching this guy in the first place. I also ask you to resist the urge to suggest anyone is a pedophile without a shred of meaningful evidence to support such an assertion. To your second comment, it's also absurd. Respect is earned and an officer walking up suggesting that taking pictures is committing a crime is where the first error occurred. Everything after that which allegedly occurred won't change the root cause of the escalation - an officer's inappropriate interrogation of a law-abiding citizen. Seth - to your first comment, it’s absurd. The officer overstepped and the parent overreacted, particularly in light of his complying with the parent’s initial request. Stop making excuses for the officer’s alleged actions, he had no business approaching this guy in the first place. I also ask you to resist the urge to suggest anyone is a pedophile without a shred of meaningful evidence to support such an assertion.

To your second comment, it’s also absurd. Respect is earned and an officer walking up suggesting that taking pictures is committing a crime is where the first error occurred. Everything after that which allegedly occurred won’t change the root cause of the escalation - an officer’s inappropriate interrogation of a law-abiding citizen.

]]> Comment on CA: Elizabeth Fontaine Loses Custody of Children - Murders Them by Karol Sikie http://www.mrcustodycoach.com/blog/elizabeth-fontaine-loses-custody-murders-children/comment-page-1#comment-146 Karol Sikie Fri, 18 Dec 2009 00:11:58 +0000 http://www.mrcustodycoach.com/blog/?p=751#comment-146 Please wait to receive all the information about t the Elizabeth Fontaine case. We are court advocates for victims of domestic violence and Elizabeth was refered to us in 2008 because of her daughter Catherine's alleged molestation by her father. Elizabeth emailed us on December 12 , 2009 to see if we could be with her as support in court on that Monday for a custody hearing. She was going to present evidence, she said.Unfortunately, I could not reach her. She lived in fear as did her mother that the children would be molested over and over. No excuses, just a bit of backround. We at New Life Advocacy think that if we could have been there on that Monday as support and the voice of reason, perhaps this horrilbe tragedy could have been averted. Never, ever is there any reason to kill children, Never. Karol Sikie, Ex. Dir. New Life Advocacy, Los Angeles CA Please wait to receive all the information about t the Elizabeth Fontaine case. We are court advocates for victims of domestic violence and Elizabeth was refered to us in 2008 because of her daughter Catherine’s alleged molestation by her father. Elizabeth emailed us on December 12 , 2009 to see if we could be with her as support in court on that Monday for a custody hearing. She was going to present evidence, she said.Unfortunately, I could not reach her. She lived in fear as did her mother that the children would be molested over and over. No excuses, just a bit of backround. We at New Life Advocacy think that if we could have been there on that Monday as support and the voice of reason, perhaps this horrilbe tragedy could have been averted. Never, ever is there any reason to kill children, Never.
Karol Sikie, Ex. Dir. New Life Advocacy, Los Angeles CA

]]> Comment on WV: Paranoia About Christmas Photos Leads to False Accusations? by Seth C. http://www.mrcustodycoach.com/blog/paranoia-about-christmas-photos-false-accusations/comment-page-1#comment-145 Seth C. Thu, 17 Dec 2009 13:37:41 +0000 http://www.mrcustodycoach.com/blog/?p=739#comment-145 Ok...in the full article... "Rensberger says the first thing the officer said was "Why are you taking pictures of kids?" He says he didn't appreciate the accusation." <<<---an indignant reply will incite any officer. The problem was (I think) that the photographer didn't know he was an off-duty cop! I'm pretty sure he'd have assumed he was just another parent. I guess this is a lesson in manners...because you never know when you might be speaking to someone of authority. Ok…in the full article…

“Rensberger says the first thing the officer said was “Why are you taking pictures of kids?” He says he didn’t appreciate the accusation.” <<<—an indignant reply will incite any officer. The problem was (I think) that the photographer didn’t know he was an off-duty cop! I’m pretty sure he’d have assumed he was just another parent. I guess this is a lesson in manners…because you never know when you might be speaking to someone of authority.

]]> Comment on WV: Paranoia About Christmas Photos Leads to False Accusations? by Seth C. http://www.mrcustodycoach.com/blog/paranoia-about-christmas-photos-false-accusations/comment-page-1#comment-144 Seth C. Thu, 17 Dec 2009 13:33:15 +0000 http://www.mrcustodycoach.com/blog/?p=739#comment-144 The truth is in the middle - quite likely the photographer said *something* that was a little off to the officer (and the parent, i suppose?) and so the officer pursued the conversation further. Might want to read up on how to not P.O. the police when talking with them. Also, the officer likely overreacted in what could've been a normal conversation. Perhaps the officer has personal issues. And maybe...just MAAAAAAAAYBE the professional photographer indeed was a pedophile. I guess time will tell what evidence comes out. The truth is in the middle - quite likely the photographer said *something* that was a little off to the officer (and the parent, i suppose?) and so the officer pursued the conversation further. Might want to read up on how to not P.O. the police when talking with them. Also, the officer likely overreacted in what could’ve been a normal conversation. Perhaps the officer has personal issues. And maybe…just MAAAAAAAAYBE the professional photographer indeed was a pedophile. I guess time will tell what evidence comes out.

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